Expressions of Sympathy

While there is no substitute for a personal visit, there are many other ways to express your sympathy.

E-Mail

E-mail is appropriate from those who are not intimate with the family such as business associate or a former neighbor.  The family will appreciate your message of concern.

Flowers

Flowers can be a great comfort to the family and may be sent to the funeral home or to the residence.  Some people prefer to send flowers to the residence afterwards.  If the family suggests donations be made in lieu of flowers, you should honor that request. Local florist Goold's Nurseries does a lovely job with sympathy flowers. You can contact them by phone at 506-432-1010 or visit their website at www.gooldsflowers.com.

Food for the Family

Food is always a welcome show of support.  It helps take the pressure off when there are several visitors in the house who need to be fed.  During the days immediately following the death, substantial dishes that require little preparation other than reheating are appropriate.

You may choose to have food delivered from a local restaurant rather than delivering it yourself. May we suggest the following locations:

Mama George's Restaurant & Takeout Ltd.
Phone: 506-485-2888

Timberland Motel & Restaurant
506-433-2480

Adair's Wilderness Lodge
506-432-6687

Kingswood University
506-432-4400
 

Mass Cards

If the deceased was Catholic some people will send a mass card instead or in addition to flowers.  Catholics and non-Catholics may arrange for a mass to be said for the deceased.  It is also appropriate to arrange a mass on the anniversary of the death.

Charitable Donations

A donation made to a Charitable Organization as a memorial gift is always appropriate, especially when the family has requested it.  Usually, the family will suggest a specific organization or charity.  It is acceptable to mention your gift in a sympathy note without mentioning the amount of the gift. 

Phone Calls

If you live out-of-town you should telephone as soon as possible to offer your sympathy.  Keep the call brief, since others will probably be trying to call as well.